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OwaisG
Question:
When should a couple start having sex in their relationship?
- Anonymous (Chicago, Illinois)
Answer:
Sex is something that's seen with many different perspectives.
Some see it as a sacred ritual between lovers, while some have sex for leisure.
In a lot of cultures, such as mine, it’s taboo to have sex before marriage,
while in other cultures, sex is meaningless and you can just approach women in a bar to get it. Due to all these different factors
and views on sex there’s no average time when couples first have sex. It really
depends on the people, how they were brought up and their beliefs. If they’re
from a religious home chances are that they share the same views so they are
less likely to have sex, while if someone was more exposed to the media and had
a more active social life, they would be more prone to have sex. If you are
both virgins, there’s no such thing as first time driver’s insurance for sex.
If you lose your virginity you can’t get it back or repair any damage done. That’s why virgin couples are
hesitant in having sex and more likely to wait until marriage. They don't want to lose their virginity and regret it forever.. You have to
visualize both ends of the spectrum for sex, there's the good and the bad. I'm no expert but I feel that you
should start having sex once you are comfortable in your relationship and are
satisfied with your partner. By satisfied I don’t mean satisfaction in bed, I'm
talking about happiness and the overall health of your relationship. You just have to stay protected because AIDs is one of the worst STDs to have, you have to be smart and not let your emotions control your decisions and make sure you're ready. Saying no to sex does not mean you are settling for less in a relationship, it means you are doing what you want and not having your decisions effected by pressure and THAT's what matters most when it comes to sex.
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