Porn and Relationships

How women see porn There has always been a difference between men and women where porn is concerned. Men tend to be turned on by things they can see, while women seem to prefer the images and fantasies they have in their heads. For this reason, women often don't enjoy the sort of porn that men usually like. If the people on the screen don't appeal to them, they don't get turned on. Women can also feel uneasy and inferior about the bodily 'perfection' of the women in porn. This can put them off sex, rather than turn them on to it. A woman can feel threatened by her man's enjoyment of these images and quickly feel that if a man is enthusiastic...

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(Q&A) How important is sex in a relationship?

Question: Hey, I've been following your blog for a while now and after reading previous Q&A about when couples should start having sex, I wanted to ask if it's even that important to have sex in a relationship. I'm only 16 so I know I'm young but if I start going out with a guy and refuse to give him sex is it bad? Anonymous (Washington D.C.) Answer: Okay so look, sex is something you shouldn't be forced into. Only do it when you're ready, not because of peer pressure, it's not a requirement and if a guy leaves you because you won't have sex with him then he probably doesn't deserve you.  Now that that's out of the way, I would...

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Top 10 Sex Positions!

Welcome to the most accredited online college for sex. Please take a seat, I will be your instructor. Class, we are about to look at your guidebook for while you're on the bed. Study carefully and remember to make sure you practice! 1) The traditional missionary  Although the missionary position is widely regarded as the big grey pants of sexual positions, it's still the most popular, and it's easy to see why: it allows for close body contact and eye contact with kissing and talking throughout. There's very little the woman can do to chivvy things along though, so he has to be prepared to do all the work.  How to do it: You...

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Happy New Year! Now it's back to College :(

After a wild ride during 2011, we move on to the next year! My new years resolution's are to do good in school, make more amazing music, and spend more time on these blogs! Let me know what your new years resolutions are by email or commenting! Whether it's to finally ask that one girl out, get admission into university or college, score a new job or maybe it's just to have a good time. Send me your resolutions and my top 5 favourite one's will be posted on the blog! Now, I'm going to spend some time with the fam and you guys can do whatever it is you do lol, Happy New Years! &nb...

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What Would You Do (WWYD) - #1: If the condom breaks..

Alright guys, so this is a new thing I wanted to start. Where every week I will post up a different scenario that could happen to anyone in their relationship and I want to know what you would do if you were put in that position.  Scenario #1: You and you're girlfriend and have been having sex regularly, one day you notice a slight leakage in the condom but choose to ignore it because you think a few drops of semen couldn't possibly impregnate her. A few weeks later you're girlfriend starts to show signs of pregnancy such as a missed period and vomiting. Upon taking a pregnancy test, you find out she's pregnant. What would you do? Now,...

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(Q&A) Colleges, Universities, Relationships

Question: Should I commit long term in college/university, or is life to hectic to have a stable relationship? Brent White (Surrey, BC) Answer: Well Brent, this really depends on you. College/University students should probably be focused and dedicated if they aspire to achieve a higher degree such as a Masters, so if you have high goals but are the type to easily get distracted then it would be best to stay away from relationships until later on. Maintaining a long term relationship in College/University is all about being able to prioritize your life. What is more important, love or education? I will admit, it's true that most love...

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(Q&A) When should couples start having sex?

Question: When should a couple start having sex in their relationship?  - Anonymous (Chicago, Illinois) Answer: Sex is something that's seen with many different perspectives. Some see it as a sacred ritual between lovers, while some have sex for leisure. In a lot of cultures, such as mine, it’s taboo to have sex before marriage, while in other cultures, sex is meaningless and you can just approach women in a bar to get it. Due to all these different factors and views on sex there’s no average time when couples first have sex. It really depends on the people, how they were brought up and their beliefs. If they’re from a religious...

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