Teenage Love = Car Wreck?

Nowadays the term "I Love You" is tossed around like a prostitute on the Vegas strip. It doesn't really hold meaning any more, people are infatuated with the idea of being in love and fail to recognize what real love is. Like every other day I see a new relationship pop up on Facebook and the conversation always goes like this:


Martha is in a relationship with Henry.


Random girl: OMGGGG NO WAY!!! 
Martha: omgggg i knowwwwww, i fully LOVE him!<333
Henry: awww i love you more boo<33333
Martha: nooooo i dooo!
Henry: believee me, i love u moree<33333
Random girl: you guys are soo fucking cute, can't wait till you get married ;)
and so on..


It's like yo, shut the fuck up, you don't love each other and no one's getting married. You can't say you love someone just because you started going out with them. 90% of the time, girls say "i love you" to their new boyfriends because they misinterpret a sense of excitement as love. They want to tell everyone they're going out, "claim" their property and also because feel they HAVE to say it.


In the movie's, it's always about falling in love and it throws peoples mind state's into this false reality that even the slightest bit of attraction is love. There's never any middle ground, but people have to understand it's a motherfucking MOVIE. Why do you treat it like your bible? It's possible for someone to just have a slight attraction toward someone else without labelling it as love.


While on the other hand, 90% of the time guys will be saying it to flatter their girlfriend just so they can get a move in or we say it because our girl said it first and we don't want to be dicks. I'm not saying EVERY guy says it for that exact reason but a lot of us do. I personally didn't say I love you until i knew i had the right one. Otherwise I would be lieing to myself and the girl.


Seriously, people need to get auto insurance quotes because all their relationships end up like car wrecks. The only thing is, you can't get an automotive insurance quote to fix on this highway of broken hearts. Love isn't when someone buys you nice things, give you compliments or take's you places. Sure those are parts of it but anyone can be with you through the happy times but only people that actually love you will stick around through the darkness. You know you love someone if you're ready to give up anything in the world for them, or are willing to do anything to make them happy. 


I'm not saying it's impossible to be in love when you're a teenager because on rare occasions, couples make it through, get married and go on living their lives happily. But notice how I said RARE. Keyword: RARE.


Consider this:
If someone was giving you $1,000,000, a mansion + Ferrari AND was willing to pay insurance for them forever, would you pick those things or the person you're with right now?

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